Thinking on the Lighter Side

Posted on June 18th, 2008 in Be Healthy by admin

There are lots of problems that come around us and we are devastated most of time.  Though wounds heal in time, there are instances that we really come up with such idea of doing something else just to forget the problem.  Other my divert their attention to drinking, smoking and worse, drugs.

Having the problem around your head, you become temperamental and you get mad even on simple things.  We could not totally eliminated the thought because of the effects that inflicted on us and worse, we no longer see what is right from wrong.  Instead of trying to solve the problem, we tend to create another one.

The very step that you should think when you caught up with such devastating problem is to calm down and think of the possible solutions.  I know, this is easier said than done, but you don’t have a choice.  You need reevaluate all the things from the beginning.  From their you’ll see it is not yet the end of the world.

Comparison will be the next step.  Having the chance to read this article, you will notice that you are still one of the lucky individuals in this earth compared to those people in Haiti that they even made a mud cake for their lunch while you are just setting their in front of your 17″ flat screen monitor.

It is hard to think on the lighter side when you are currently on the peak of the problem and it may take days, weeks or months for you to be able to regain yourself again.  But you need to stand again to face another life’s challenges. Every time you see something you call problem to others, try to visualize yourself in their place and think on the lighter side.  Their you will see how and why the person behave in such away instead of doing something better.  This will serve as a practice of getting yourself accustomed and to be tolerant on what to be done on such problems.

After all, there is always that hope around, jut don’t stop hoping for a brighter tomorrow.